Stop Promoting Your Blog Already!
This has become a bit of a pet peeve with me (and it is not directed at anyone in particular). The thing that gets me most, is the fact that this was something that I not only did with my blog for the majority of it’s existence – but something that I also promoted as a good idea.

What I am talking about is bloggers incessant need promote their blog before themselves.
You know what I am talking about, people who:
- Use Their Logo As Their Gravatar
- Leave Comments With Their Blogs Name
Everything is about people knowing about their blog.
Like I said, I used to follow this ‘marketing strategy’ but since dropping it, I am starting to realise how annoying it really is.
Who Want’s To Communicate With A Brand?
I don’t know about you, but I want to talk to people. I want to know about the face behind the blog.
I love reading ‘about’ pages.
I love it when I can find and use a persons real name in social media conversations, comments and emails.
I want to know that I am talking to a person a and not a product!
What Is Best In The Long Run?
I understand the desire to try and brand your blog. But in all honesty, the only reason people stick around once they have visited your blog is because of you.
Content is great, but anyone can write content. People are looking for personality, who you are and how you write needs to connect with what they are looking for.
Branding will only get you so far, but start building personal relationships and networking and you will be shocked by the opportunities that arise.
The Changes I Made
With the relaunching/rebranding of StandOutBlogger it wasn’t just the blog design that got an overhaul.
I completely changed the way that I interacted with everyone. I wanted to put a name and a face behind StandOutBlogger.
So I:
- Comment With Just My Name
Every since I had started this blog, every comment I made on another blog was always ‘Tom | StandOutBlogger’ or ‘Tom@StandOutBlogger’ (if they used KeywordLuv). Everything needed the blog name on it.Now everywhere I comment, it is just ‘Thomas Sinfield’ – and if a blog has KeywordLuv, I don’t use it) I Want the bloggers to know that I am there to add value – not to try and drag their readers away to my site.
- Made Twitter More Personal
I changed the background and icon from my logo to a photo of myself. I also included my name in my Twitter background. Previously people would have had no idea on Twitter if I was male/female or what age I was. Now with one simple change it shows everyone exactly who I am – and have you noticed how much easier it is to tweet with a face as opposed to a logo? - Changed My Gravatar
In the transition from logo of photo, I also made my Gravatar a nice little head shot of me.
I don’t know about you, but there is an increasing amount of spammy comments (and I am not just talking about the auto generated ones). I am talking about the commentators who just skim your content to pick up on key thoughts, so they look like they are leaving an educated comment – but in all seriousness they are just trying to get a link to their blog and a trickle of traffic.
So while I will approve comments that add value. Very rarely will I visit a commentators website, unless their name or a photo makes up part of their comments ( usually takes both).
Am I Saying Everyone Should Do This?
In a perfect world, ‘YES’. but in reality not everyone has the same goals. And while I am working on building community and credibility, other people are looking for traffic and profit (which funnily enough come when you have community and credibility).
But I think the main point I am trying to make, is that if you are interested in networking, then please give us something to work with? No one wants to communicate with a logo and a company/blog name!
Your Say: Blog Promotion vs Networking?
Maybe I am wrong. Maybe people do not care if they are communicating with a person or a brand. If you have something to add to this discussion, add your comments below.





38 Responses
7.28.2010
That’s funny about no one knowing what you looked like before you added the photo. I thought you were much older.
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 28th, 2010 at 3:56 pm
haha! Thanks (I think). I am 24 years old – photos usually make me look a lot younger than that.
7.28.2010
Hey Thomas,
Really Great Post.
I think Networking is much important then blog promotion.
I also started using my own pic in comments, before i was using a cartoon pic :).
Thanks for sharing this great Post.
~Dev
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 29th, 2010 at 6:37 am
Thanks Dev.
I noticed the new photo :D
Gary David@Build Your List Fast Reply:
July 29th, 2010 at 8:28 pm
Hi Dev,
I noticed the new photo as well. Never thought you look like that.=)
7.29.2010
I loved this article. I totally agree and you know sometimes I even edit the persons name when they leave a comment. I find it extremely annoying. It would be like me commenting right now under the name blog engage which I find wrong. I’m Brian so I use my web name bbrian017.
I love building on my personal brand far more then building my website brands.
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 29th, 2010 at 6:38 am
I have done the same thing ( usually when I get frustrated with the amount of people who don’t use their name)!
I think especially with blogging, people want to know about the people behind the blogs.
7.29.2010
I disagree on your point that anyone can write content. Um, no, not everyone is a writer – and that’s a huge problem with blogs these days.
I also don’t think all the points here are spot-on. For instance, including the name of your site and a link in the footer of posts just makes sense. While people want to interact with “me” they still want to know what I do, so that link helps them learn more about who I am and if the content at my site will help them in their quests.
If you’re not including a link to your site, you’re losing potential visitors. If someone says something interesting, I *want* to visit their site to see if they may offer more info I’m seeking.
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 29th, 2010 at 6:45 am
Pamela, you make my point. Not everyone is a write, but everyone seems to be trying to – and you only have to read the majority of blogs to see that.
What I was trying to say was that with the amount of content that is out there (because everyone is writing – even when they probably shouldn’t), it is easy for your blog to get lost in the midst of it all.
When people comment as ‘SEO Services’ or ‘Make Money Blogging’ I have no idea who they are – and I have seen about 20 different blogs that use that name in comments. However if you use your name and a photo of yourself in comments, then there is only one you – so you are going to stand out.
I do agree with your point that people want to know what you do, and the fact is that the majority of blogs now use CommentLuv which shows your latest post with each comment you make. I believe that you should link your name through to your website on comments, that just makes sense. But I personally believe that commenting should be about adding value to the conversation.
7.29.2010
“from logo of photo” this is exactly what I am asking my fellows bloggers to do, it’s very important to use a personal photo for gravatar!
Very nice read Tom! I love this post!
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 29th, 2010 at 2:52 pm
Good to hear you agree Hesham. Photos let us see what other bloggers look like :D Which is usually a lot different to what we would have guessed!
7.29.2010
I agree with you Thomas. No need to promote your blog, what you can do is just add real value and people will follow you if they like you.
7.29.2010
Thomas i liked your thoughts about branding. I am always posting comments with my blog name, that is “Tech Maish”, but now i decided to post comments with my name.
The credit goes to you Thomas.
7.29.2010
Excellent post, and I do agree with you. It’s more important to act with the people that I visit. I enjoy interacting with others. Networking and blog promotion does work together (if that’s your goal) if a person has enjoyed what you’ve added to the conversation they might check out your site to see what you have to say.
Personally I stay away from bloggers who are constantly promoting themselves on other peoples websites. You can promote yourself simply by interacting with others. It shouldn’t be “always about you,” a few people might pick up on that vibe (even if it isn’t intended) and avoid your virtual home.
With my older websites, I tend to get the “I’ve got to promote my blog and not contribute to the conversation” a lot more. Thankfully with my newest site, I don’t have to deal with that.
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 6:51 am
I agree! That is exactly the way I feel about quite a few bloggers. You can pick up on people commenting for links so easily.
7.30.2010
You are absolutely right Thomas,
People want to communicate with the REAL you and not just your brand.
Thans so much for the great post,
-Onibalusi
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 6:52 am
Thanks Onibalusi!
You are one of the people that I have seen doing this for a while and part of the inspiration for me making the shift as well :D
7.30.2010
I agree, people need to promote themselves and build that relationship even before you introduce your blog to the equation.
Build your brand first, your blogs brand second.
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 6:53 am
“Build your brand first, your blogs brand second”
Exactly!
If you have a strong personal brand that will leak onto your blogs brand without you doing anything.
John Paul@Make Money Blogging Reply:
July 30th, 2010 at 7:03 am
I agree :)
7.31.2010
Agreed! I hate when people leave comments with their brand names and logos etc.
I’d definitely rather communicate with an actual person.
PS: Could you email me at b@langonline.com, I have a question about how you make your images on the home page (they look great) plus I think we should talk a bit, would love to network :)
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
July 31st, 2010 at 5:45 pm
Definitely will shoot you an email. Sorry, I did you get Tweet, just been super busy. I’ll try and get it to you tomorrow.
7.31.2010
I couldn’t agree with you more Thomas. I really wasn’t comfortable with many of the typical tactics for building my blog community. And I found they weren’t terribly effective either.
When I started going for a more social approach with people, then things really started to happen. I look at it this way, I’m building a family. I’ve offered help and support to many other bloggers online and now I find that many of them respond in kind. The power of reciprocity cannot be underestimated.
BTW – I added your free ebook/course to my Squidoo Lens page of Free Blogging eBooks (filed under blogging courses).
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
August 1st, 2010 at 1:32 pm
Thankyou Joella! And I seem to have taken the same journey as you over the last couple of months. When you take the time to really connect with other bloggers, the things that they are willing to do for you is amazing.
It really is like one big family!
8.1.2010
Some how my gravatar only pulls my eye into the frame. will have to look into the reason for this.
8.1.2010
I can see the argument from both sides. I’m doing an awful lot of reading about creating and sustaining blogs. I find that there are always two extremes for everything. And the arguments for both are always valid.
The rub I see with this post has to do with why the blog was created and what the origin of the blog is. If you are Joe and you have a photography blog called http://www.TheCoolestPhotographyBlogEver.com, it sure would be annoying if you responded to comments with the name The Coolest Photography Blog Ever. On the other hand, if you are Joe and your blog is http://www.JoePhotoDude.com, then why not use Joe Photo Dude as your name?
One thing I’m learning is to be moderate. And to see all angles. It seems that your point is valid, but making me feel nervous about posting a comment because you might cut out the name of my blog is just as annoying as having a commentator being obnoxious with their promotion.
Furthermore, almost all the time commentators are just eager and excited about getting his or her blog noticed in a comment.
Comments take work. They generally add value to a post. So why not give a little and let the commentator have a bit of recognition?
If the brand displays some humanality, consider viewing it as a compliment that someone thinks your blog is big enough and cool enough to contribute to.
Bon, the human
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
August 1st, 2010 at 1:28 pm
Thankyou so much for your comment Bon and I agree, it is very much one of those arguments where people take definitive sides.
And I understand that people are interested in a bit of promotion for their websites and that is one of the reasons that I have implimented the KeywordLuv plugin on this blog – so that people can include their name but still get a link to their blog with a keyword that tells us a little bit about who they are.
The thing I have a problem with is people who come to my blog, leave a comment with no name attached to it, just something like ‘make money online’ ‘photography tips’ and have their gravatar image as a dollar sign or their logo.
How do I know who I am talking to? How do I respond or try to begin to build a relationship with them, when I don’t even know if they are male and female.
So I do agree with your point that we need to learn moderation, but it is something that has to come from both sides. If a commentator is not willing to come to the party and give me a bit of information about who they are – then it makes me wonder what their real reason for leaving a comment is.
I hope that clears things up a little bit! I appreciate the thought that you put into your comment :D
Bon Crowder Reply:
August 2nd, 2010 at 8:47 pm
Cool, Tom, I’m with you on that!
I chose my blog name based on me (I’m a Cinderella fan of the first order – even did the hazing and drank the pig’s blood) so that’s why this was pretty touchy for me.
Now I get what you’re saying.
Thanks for your thorough response!
b
8.1.2010
My blog is only two months old. I started promoting with my logo and got no where. Changed to promoting myself and finally starting to see results in my stats.
8.2.2010
Thomas, just found your blog. Thought provoking article. I’ve used both strategies in the past and I do agree with your point. I wonder though, what’s your take for people like me that have multiple websites/blogs and not just one brand?
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
August 2nd, 2010 at 9:07 pm
I know exactly what you mean Larry, I run a couple of blogs myself and it can be a little bit interesting. But if they are in different niches then you most likely are going to comment on different blogs for each of your own blogs. In that case I would just use a unique picture for each blog (set up a gravatar for each one). However if they are in the same niche, then I have no problem with people using their logos – as long as they use their name. So you could use each blogs logo in your comments?
8.4.2010
I think sometimes it is more interessting to see a domain name than the name of the commentator. If it is a personal blog where the personality of the blog author is important and interessting, then I would prefer the real name of the author. If it is for example a Web Design Gallery (like mine) I would prefer the name of the gallery because I think my real name is less interessting than the gallery name and I also think it doesn’t matter who collects the featured designs.
But if it is a blog like yours, I agree with your opinion.
Thomas Sinfield Reply:
August 7th, 2010 at 8:49 am
That is a fair point! but I would still like to know who I am talking to. So if you are commenting on a blog using KeywordLuv (like mine, you could comment as name@Web Design Gallery and it would link to your website, but still include your name. OR you could include your name at the bottom of your comment. I just find it hard to respond to a comment that doesn’t include a name.
8.11.2010
Hi Thomas, this is a very interesting conversation and perhaps I am looking for the best of both worlds.
During the past year I focused on my personal blog using my own photo and name. But more importantly I was able to reach out to others and connect through the use of video tutorials and screencasts. That’s been the perfect vehicle to engage people and let them know that I’m not just “another pretty face”. Recently I started a new blog that focuses on those traditional brand building techniques you have decided to leave behind. I’m using the logo and the keywords when possible.
My thinking is that by continuing with the video tutorial series, I can maintain the personal connections and at the same time extend that over to the new branding.
Do you think that sounds like a good plan?
Thanks for opening up this topic.
8.19.2010
Thomas — this is an interesting debate you have started. I researched this photo or branding concept when I started my first blog. At the time everyone was advocating branding, branding, branding. So that is the way I chose to go. (It wasn’t hard since I don’t like photos of me and rarely let anyone snap of me).
While your argument is compelling, I’m still not sure that I will give up the logo for a picture of me.
Will I get more interest, if not business, switching over to a more personable image vs branding my logo? I don’t know. But you have given me an idea to compare what I have up to this point then switch over and see if I get more interest when I put a face to the name. It would make for a great study. And I think the best of both worlds, as Bon mentioned: A personable photo with keywordluv identifying what you did (kind of like a short business card).
I have found more blogs I like through comments that allow keywordluv and commentluv. My blog walking is taking longer and longer every day.
Now, if only I can find a photo of me that isn’t a baby pic my mom took 40 years ago :-)
8.19.2010
Thanks thomar. I really enjoyed your post. But i’m sorry to say that i’m not totally agree with you. I have not any problem to use own name while commenting but in case of Gravatar people may use their logo to brand their blog. Thanks
8.20.2010
hey, I COMPLETELY agree. While im still building my blog,I feel that it is important for people to begin to recognize who the person is behind the blog. Although my work will speak for its self, I still want people to be able to directly relate to me on a personal level.
If your audience only recognize your blog because they see your logo, they will not have a personal connection and be capable of finding a sense of worth from your work. Adding a picture/avatar of yourself will always do the trick when it comes to building a successful brand and business online.
Thanks for allowing me to comment
Sam Mangum
9.5.2010
I agree with you. It’s much realistic to talk with those people who use their pictures in gravatar and use their real names. At least you can build a relationship with them, maybe in the future could be your buddy in blogging community.