
I’ve Taken A Few Detours
I remember growing up and all through high school, not knowing what I wanted to do with my life. There were so many choices, and so many possibilities. One week I was set on becoming a scientist, the next I was sure the career path I would follow would be that of an optometrist – then it change to business.
When I finished high school I enrolled in a Bachelor of Biomedical Science – which I did one year of before decided that science wasn’t for me. The next year I completed the first year of a Bachelor of Business, but got frustrated with the fact that all they taught me to do was work for someone else – when I wanted to learn how to start my own business.
After that I started a Diploma of Financial Services with the intent of getting into stock broking, but before I could finish that course I was offered a Traineeship in Real Estate Sales – which I took. At the end of the traineeship I decided that sales wasn’t for me and started working for my dad, building houses – which is what I have been doing for the last 12 months.
Why Am I telling You This?
Because not everyone is able to slip straight into their lifelong career right from high school, sometimes we take detours and other times we have things to learn before we are ready.
It takes a while for us to find out who we are, what we are meant to do and how we are meant to go about doing it. The funny thing is that we never usually end up where we think we will!
I remember when I was growing up, EVERYONE I knew thought I was going to be a scientist, doctor or in some other medical related field. I was smart, I read nonstop, I was interested in it and studied it in my personal time – but as I got older I started to grow and develop. To search and to learn. And I ended up in a totally different (not right or wrong – just different) spot than myself and everyone watching my life had expected.
It Is The Same With Our Blogs
When ever I start a blog, I have it all planned out. The theme, the content, the style. I have a mental picture of how I expect it to look in 6-12 months time. But just like with our lives – it never turns out like we expect!
Looking back at the last 6 months of this blog, I have seen it go through stages of growth as well as times of staleness. I have watched myself change the way I blog and tweak the way I convey my thoughts.
I have tried:
- List Posts
- Tutorials
- Motivational Posts
- Competitions
- Video Blogging
And I am sure some of you would by now be thinking ‘ just go ahead and choose your blogging style already.’
But what I am doing now is exactly what I did as I was growing up – I am finding myself and my blogging style. I am seeing what works and what doesn’t in the purpose of finding myself in the midst of millions of other bloggers, and in the process – setting myself apart.
In the last 6 months I have noticed a few things that I have learnt about finding your own unique blogging style that I hope will help you in the pursuit of finding yours.
4 Ways To Develop Your Unique Blogging Style
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Look At The Goals Of Your Blog

One of the easiest ways to start developing your own unique blogging style is to stop and look at the reason you started blogging.
With the recent failure of my latest attempt at finding my blogging style, I was forced to stop and take stock and work out where I went wrong.
This took me back to my goals for this blog and what I found was that I was way off course.
If you are signed up with StandOutBlogger Underground you would have received my first email in regards to my secret blog launch. In it I looked at the motivation for us choosing to blog – our blogging mission statement.
This is what I listed the StandOutBlogger mission statement as:
StandOutBlogger.com will teach and encourage bloggers to use creative thinking to allow themselves to ‘Stand Out’ from the crowd and become successful. In doing so I will build this blog to a successful business, setting myself up as a professional with great credibility in my chosen field, allowing me to create and launched quality branded product while making a full-time income from this blog.
In writing this it made me realise that if I wanted to building this blog into a successful business and set myself up as a profession within my niche – with credibility, then I needed to treat it like a business. I needed to be professional to earn credibility.
Have you set goals for your blog? Are you heading in the right direction?
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Try New Things

I would never have come to this conclusion if I had not tried out so many different styles and looked at using this blog to try new things.
When I decided to looking into video blogging and the whole concept of the Blogger Film Festival, I was doing it because one of the core values of this blog is to be creative.
However, sometimes being creative is stepping out on a limb. And sometimes it includes failing.
But if we never try new things, how will we ever know our real potential?
I love the story of Thomas Edison and the invention of the light bulb, because hearing how it took him 10,000 attempts to finally get his initial idea to work encourages me every time one of my ideas fails.
The good thing is that we will probably never have to try 10,000 before we find a successful blogging style, but we need to be continually trying new things. And even when we start to find our own unique blogging style we can’t stop experimenting and tweaking.
What are you doing at the moment that is new a creative on your blog?
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Check Out Other Blogs Styles
Which blogs do you love to read and why?This is a fantastic place to start when you are looking at your own style. For me personally,
I love blogs that:
- Have long detailed posts
- Are well formatted
- Focus on quality and not quantity of posts
- Set a standard in excellence and professionalism
So I started listing the blogs that I LOVE to read that follow this format.
These blogs are some of my all time favourite blogs and great examples of bloggers that have put a focus on professionalism and quality.
Here are a few:
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Just Let It Develop Naturally
Sometimes things just take time to develop. Just like a new born baby takes time before it starts to walk, we as bloggers cannot expect to jump straight into a new blog and instantly find the blogging style that we will stick with for the life of the blog.Take your time and enjoy the ride as you let your unique blogging voice naturally develop.
Although your blogging style will naturally develop over time, if you start to implement the first three steps:
- If you look at your blogging goals
- If you are constantly trying new things with your blog
- If you are looking at the blog styles of your favourite bloggers
Now if these are the blog styles that I love to read then there is a good chance they could play a sifnificant part in the development of my unique blogging style.
What are the blogs and blog styles that you love to read?
Then you will find your blogging voice a little bit more quickly.
What Are You Doing To Develop Your Blogging Style?
I am definately commited to continually pursue the style of blogging that is my own, because I know that is what makes one blog different from the other – and quite possibly could be the one thing that is the difference between an average blog and a ‘stand out’ blog!
I am committing to focussing:
- Quality Over Quantity
This may mean less posts, but the quality will be much higher and hopefully the visitor discussion will be given enough time to generate additional, valuable opinions. - Excellence
I don’t want to be known as an ordinary blogger, or a ‘ok’ blogger. I want to provide unique content in a way that makes people stop and look, and then say ‘This guy has his blogging style down pat!’ - Influence & Credibility
With the focus of my blogging be turned towards quality and excellence, I will be using these values, as well as being active in my niche, and responsive to my readers as a means of building my influence and credibility not only within my niche – but also in surrounding niches.
What Will You Commit Too?
I’d love to know what you are doing to develop your unique blogging style!
So if you would like to share your plans or if you have anything else you would like to contribute, feel free to comment below!




Wicked blog post Tom! This post has been very helpful!
Yeah of course. As a blogger, you will learn to grow; not only you but your skills and perspective too…
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Excellent post, Tom.
I’ve gone through many cycles with my blog and I’ eventually decided I was going to write about whatever I feel like writing about at that particular moment.
Sometimes it’s blogging. Other times it’s self improvement and motivation. And other times it’s travel.
In the end, there were many things I wanted to cover so rather than picking one topic, I went against the grain and decided to write about several topics. Contrary to popular belief, it is possible to build a successful blog in this way.
Jamie
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Tom,
Don’t forget copyblogger. That is one of the best blogs out there as far as learning about writing styles.
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Wow very nice. I enjoyed in reading your post. These are great tips and ways to make your blog unique.
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Michael – Thanks!
Bryan – That exactly it!
Jamie – Thanks,everyone is different and their styles are too. While focusing on one topic works for some, doing what you do and haveing multiple topics works also!
Ben – I’ve never actually read copyblogger, I will have to go and subscribe. But another great one is zenhabits.net – a fantastic example of quality over quantity.
Unique Blogger – Thanks!
Hey Tom,
Excellent post. I guess a unique style develops when you see things from your own prospective, have your own opinions of things and all those things you mentioned.
I’ve seen a lot of blogs crop up, that try to emulate others. I believe in building up a strong, and personal brand. :)
Rawk!
Swastik :wink:
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Good post Tom, I think I’m(in my opinion) a prime example of developing a unique blogging style. I bought a blog that had already been established to go in a certain direction, but over time I feel I’ve brought my own unique way of posting to my blog. However in the past few months my plan is to start making a business plan as if I were opening a brick n mortar store. I’ve had a real store before a “Boutique” and when you go to the bank you have to have a business plan all mapped out and explain why and how you have decided to open this business and have a plan as to how your business will grow and your vision for your business. So I’ve decided that this is what I should do to see my vision for the future of my blog. This wouldn’t hurt other bloggers, oldtimers or noobies who are just starting out.
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Whatever style of blogging one has, the importance of quality over quantity can never be taken off the equation – ever. It’s good that you are putting everything into perspective now. It should give you a better sense of direction.
On a side note, accepting and learning from own mistakes is the hallmark of any successful person. I tip my hat off you. Kudos to you, Tom.
Yan
PS: I’m surprised that copyblogger isn’t in your list. Oh ya, thanks for the mention.
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enjoyed reading the article
very nice post… definitely those who follows these – achieves success ;)
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I really like this post a lot. there is a personal slant that is unmistakable and real. Putting that kind of personality into your writing is the key to a great style, high readability and comin’ back for more visitors.
Nice job!
Cheers
George
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Awesome post. I have been through many blogs and bloggers who copy others content. Thats really bad.
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yan – I have just added copyblogger to my feedreader and im sure it will soon become one of my favourites.
George – thankyou. Maybe that is my unique blogging style shining through? I guess we will have to wait and see.
Hi Tom,
solid post my man. Like you, I have gone through many blogging styles. Even now my blog is a mix of helpful/motivation and in-you-face commentary…
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Tom,
I feel that it will take some time to develop one’s own unique style of blogging and I too am still feeling my way around the blogsphere while learning from the pioneers.
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Slam Blogger – That it, it’s definately a continual process and one I don’t think you ever stop working towards.
Dominique – Yes, take your time. There is no rush in finding your unique style. Try a few things out and see which ones suit you and which ones your visitors like.
This is very useful article and I also like Your conclusion finally. It’s pretty hard to find own blogging style – but I agree it comes just by trying something new all the time.
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I’m glad you are not those bloggers that advise their readers to post daily or create some B.S. post to cover the topic of the day.
I am someone who always supports quantity over quality. My style of writing has always been writing long detailed post which doesn’t allow me to post daily. I rather spend a few days writing it and making sure I leave all topics covered in the article.
Great article Tom.
Wei Liang
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Very great post for new and potential bloggers, but I personally like to take the challenge and do things myself and how I want it :D
-Mike
Great post.
Loved the life’s detours comments.
Very nice post. Its very inspirational since I can relate to most of what your saying, even in the short time I’ve been blogging seriously.
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I’m in high school right now, I want to be an astronaut, no I’m just kidding lol. I want to be a doctor.
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I never can be a good blogger because lack of times and it is useless if just write content that no one read.
Much like life, blogging is a process. I think it’s good to not stick to a rigid format or plan from day one. Let your blog evolve, and your voice emerge and you’ll create a better reader experience in the long run.
Matt
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Hi Tom,
My first time here and I enjoyed your post. For me I chose quality over quantity posts and I try to write with the reader in mind, sometimes including some personal experiences on the topic I’m writing.
Thanks for visiting my blog. Keep in touch.
Peter Lee
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Awesome post! I love how you formatted every single bit of it, makes it so enjoyable to read.
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Great list of unique way to improve our blogging styles.
I ve actually not concentrated on my blogging style , maybe I should look at it in detail
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This is the top notch post of the year. I really love to hear more in the same aspect.
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I stumbled upon this post of yours from Google.
I’ve been asking myself about this same idea.
To create my own blogging style. To be unique. To be different amongst others. Blogging life is very similar to our existing natural and random life. Sometimes, our expectation turns out to be different. And we sometimes ponder where and why we’re currently here and why we were not able to achieve what we are supposed to achieve.
Until now, I was thinking.
This post of yours kept me busy thinking. And while i’m writing this post, an idea popped up in mind. But I wouldn’t spill it yet.
I will perhaps, try it yet, and see if I will be succesful now.
I hope so.
Thanks for this great post!
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Starting a blog has really made me look more at me thats for sure
Michelle
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I think it is all about experimentation and not being afraid of failing. Everybody needs to form there own style and it takes time to do that. I am constantly experimenting with new types of post,images, and adding new tools and sections to my blog.
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